The major change I am seeing in my brain is that when I view porn I can no longer see the girls as objects. I see them as people and wonder about their lives. That is a new thing for me and a sign that this brain science is right. You know, it is funny. I don’t relate to a lot of what I read in the forums in terms of hooking up or not knowing how to relate to the opposite sex. So in those ways I feel I have a lot less to overcome than many who have gone down those paths or have that difficulty to deal with. At the same time I have years and years is habitual response to stress that I am working to overcome, and those patterns had become so ingrained in me. But things are much, much better.
